We spend our lives listening to the opinions others have of us and of our choices, of how we should be or behave, of whether we choose well or badly.
Inside each of us there is a being that tells us exactly what we want, what our inner self desires, which often does not match the expectations others have for us.
- Our parents have expectations about our partners, friends, etc.
- Many of us spend our lives trying to satisfy other people’s wishes, thinking too much, doing little.
- What you like, what makes you happy: that is your path.
- When you are on your mission, your mission reaches you; there are no small or big missions, everything is love.
- And it is to yourself that you must answer; you are the one who lives your life, you are the one who falls and the one who gets back up.
- So learn to listen to that little inner voice, give it its space, and it will grow; you will see it more clearly, you will feel it; and when you feel it, act, do not hesitate.
- A decision is always better than no decision.
- The body calms down, the mind calms down when it decides; then let go of the outcome.
- Because every decision is a right decision, whatever the outcome, if that decision has been made by your heart.
- Learning to decide from the heart is like learning to swim: you have to let go, float and just do it.
- Everyone thinks too much, everyone listens to everyone else and strays from themselves.
You are your only path; do not stray from it.
Arantxa Pisón, psychologist in Vigo.